You know the cliche. Men don't like commitment. Chances are, you've dated a guy who seemed to fit this cliche. You've probably asked yourself why this happens. And you've probably wondered if it's even possible to get a man to want commitment as much as you do.
Here I'm going to show you how to reverse a man's resistance to commitment. And I'm going to show you how to do it by triggering a basic male instinct he simply can't ignore. There are specific reasons men avoid commitment. Discover what they are, and you gain the power to transform the way he sees you in his life.
Before we dive into that though, I want to talk a bit about other articles you may have read on this topic.
You've probably seen headlines like, "The Real Reason He Won't Commit" or "Six Signs He'll Never Commit." These types of articles are everywhere. And they tend to say things like, "he's not ready to settle down," "he wants to play the field," and "he's just not that into you."
Now there are definitely "players" out there. Men who just want someone they can hook up with. Someone who won't get in the way of their desire to live free and do whatever they want. I can't help you with those men.
If a guy flat out tells you he just wants to see you casually. Or you know he's seeing other women and has no desire to stop. Well, you're probably better off investing your relationship energy elese where.
The things I'm going to teach you are designed to attract a particular type of man. The kind of man who is destined to make you happy.
Let me illustrate with an example.
The Guy Who Kept Pulling Away
There's a couple I know who used to have a problem. We'll call them Jack and Jill.
Jack and Jill had been seeing each other for a while. Whenever they were together, you could tell they were really into each other.
There was the typical passion that comes with the honeymoon stage of any relationship. But there was also a specific type of sweetness.
They cared about each other. They were invested in each other. There was real love there. But whenever Jill tried to take things to the "next level," Jack pulled away.
He didn't do this in an obvious, straightforward way. There was no conversation where he told her that he wasn't ready. Or that he wanted to keep his options open.
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Instead, he'd smile and nod when she brought it up, then change the subject at the first opportunity. Or he'd suddenly become less available to hang out for a few days. Or weeks.
If Jill ever pushed him on the topic, he said of course he wanted more. But his actions pointed in the opposite direction.
Jill didn't know what to do.
"Is he lying to me?" she asked. "Is he just stringing me along?"
I didn't think so, so I asked her to tell me more about Jack. I knew he was in his late-20s. And that he was just finishing up his residency at a hospital. A nice guy. Funny. Smart. Rolled his eyes at Grey's Anatomy, but liked Scrubs. A walking Star Trek encyclopedia.
But I needed more insight about Jack.
Jill told me he was grounded. Someone who plans and budgets. A good enough listener to remember her love of an obscure comedian and get them tickets when he was in town. And he was working hard on his first draft of a sci-fi novel.
"No," I told her. "I don't think he's just stringing you along."
"Then what is it?" she asked.
"I think he's a Prince," I said. He hasn't built his kingdom yet.
She was just as confused as you probably are. Jack's seeming inability to commit had to do with the inherent need all men have to be a hero.
Allow me to explain.....